Cats are unique animals that require a particular kind of attention and affection.
They’re not dogs, so they don’t behave in the same way, but there’s something very special about the bond we form with them.
Perhaps it’s because they’re more independent and have developed a different way of interacting with us.
But how do we show them that we love them? These are some of the ways to start:
1. Communication and Eye Contact
Cats communicate mostly through body language, so use soft eye contact and slow blinks to convey trust and affection.
According to research, cats interpret a slow blink as an expression of love and contentment.
Scientists studied cats’ eye-narrowing movements and how they communicate with humans, a study published in Scientific Reports.
They found that when cats do a slow blink sequence, it is like they are saying nice things to us.
When reciprocated by us, these eye-narrowing movements can potentially enhance our cat-human bond and contribute to our cat’s well-being.
Also, while you do this, try a gentle head nod or averted eye contact to create a sense of equality and non-threatening behavior.
2. Make Your Cat Feel Special and Prioritized
Enrich your cat’s environment by providing cat beds, cat trees, window perches, and other vertical spaces.
Cats love to have high perches where they can survey their domain comfortably.
Allow your cat to have their own designated areas in the home where they can feel secure and relaxed.
Doing this will help your cat feel valued and loved.
3. Playtime Equals Love
Engage in interactive play with your cat on a daily basis.
Use toys and games that stimulate their hunting instincts and provide exercise. Interactive play helps strengthen the bond between you and your cat.
A well-played string can be the key to a cat’s heart!
Engaging your cat in play keeps them physically fit and mentally stimulated. And hey, who doesn’t love a good game of chase-the-laser?
4. Prioritize Their Health and Wellness
Take care of your cat’s overall well-being by providing a nutritious diet, preferably one that is high in meat content.
Feeding your cat with junk food or not providing enough food shows a lack of concern for their health.
Giving your cat a healthy diet promotes good health and longevity, leading to a higher quality of life.
Providing a balanced and nutritious diet speaks volumes to your love for your furry friend.
Schedule regular vet visits for check-ups and consider complementary therapies such as acupuncture or cold laser therapy for older cats.
Focus on keeping your cat healthy and addressing any pain or discomfort they may experience.
A healthy cat is a happy cat, and nothing says love, like taking care of your fur baby’s physical health.
5. Respect Your Cat’s Boundaries
Respecting your cat’s boundaries is crucial to showing love toward them. Cats are independent and value their personal space.
They love spending time on their own and might not always enjoy being in your face. Never force your cat to interact with you if she’s not in the mood for it.
Allow your cat to approach you on her own terms, and accept her affection when she’s willing to give it.
6. A Gentle Approach and Pay Attention to Their Body Language
Your cat loves a gentle approach.
Approach her calmly, and speak softly to her. Pay attention to what she’s telling you, and respect her space.
Every cat has a certain unique body language that signals happiness or an unpleasant experience.
It’s important to pay attention to your cats’ body language and learn what fits their mood.
If they want scratches or rubs, you’ll see the pleasure in their eyes, and they will probably stretch.
When a cat is under the weather, you will notice changes in their physical experience, and they may become more vocal or sleeping too much.
When you pay attention to these things, you’re conveying your love in a way that cats understand and appreciate.
7. Finding Friends for Your Cat
Cats usually love the company of other cats.
If you only have one, consider getting another one. They will give each other social interaction and prevent boredom.
This will also help your cat be happier, reducing the likelihood of behavioral problems.
Here is a fun and interactive video from Jackson Galaxy on this topic that I think you’ll enjoy:
Does my cat know that when I kiss her it means I love her?
From my personal experience with my cat, I will say yes, cats can tell if you love them when you kiss them.
My cat will blink and slowly close her eyes when I kiss her on the head.
However, it really depends on how you approach your furry friend.
Every cat has their own personality and preferences, so pay attention to their body language and reactions.
When I kiss my cat, she responds very lovingly and even purrs in contentment. But I make sure to approach her gently and in a way that doesn’t startle her.
It’s all about building trust and showing affection in a way that your cat enjoys.
Cats are mysterious, but they’re also highly perceptive and can easily pick up on our emotions and intentions.
Which makes it very important that we’re mindful of how we communicate with them.
Many of what I shared above are some ways you can let your cat know that you love them.